21 Discreet Sex Toys That Can Fit in Your Smallest Bag

If you’ve ever had the mood strike in an inopportune place (traveling, or at a restaurant, maybe), then you’ll appreciate the world of discreet sex toys. At your disposal are these sex toys, which are not only pleasure powerhouses, but also miniature and modest enough to fit into your handbag, carry-on, or even pocket. Because you never know when you might need some sexy tools on hand.

While you could DIY a homemade sex toy in a pinch, any person who values preparedness will appreciate the world of small, subtle sex toys that are easy to always have within reach. You’ll find rechargeable clitoral vibrators like bullet vibrators and lipstick vibrators, hands-free remote-control panty vibrators, and male masturbators and butt plugs that look like anything but. These toys don’t take up much shelf or bag space and are excellent for travel, as you can unobtrusively carry them pretty much anywhere you go (without raising questions at airport security). Some you can even wear as jewelry. Nicely, smaller toys tend to be more affordable (a plus for beginners), while still offering tons of exciting vibration patterns; speeds; and soft silicone, water-resistant bodies.

Below we’ve rounded up the most discreet sex toys, including sex expert picks for vibrators and massagers from Amazon, Lovehoney, We-Vibe, Babeland, Lelo, Dame, Maude, and more—all as intense as they are inconspicuous. 

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  • Organic Loven

    Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace

    Available in silver, rose gold, and 24k gold (and engraveable too), this gorgeous necklace (one of Jane Fonda’s favorites) is actually a slender, rechargeable vibrator on a long, delicate chain that you can keep on you at all times—“just in case you wind up somewhere a vibe is desired,” says Good Vibrations staff sexologist Carol Queen.

  • Maude

    Maude Vibe

    “What’s striking is just how sleek, small, and discreet Vibe’s design is,” this commerce editor writes of her SELF Fave Maude Vibe. “It’s shaped like a blend of an egg vibrator and a finger vibrator. The rounded base fits naturally in my hand and tapers to a soft tip. I hold it like a wand, and it makes my lady-bits go “Lumos.